Just got my Z8! First thing I did, before even turning it on, is mount up each of my lenses to see/feel the weight difference compared to the Z9. My first impressions (not that anyone cares, but I'm going to share anyway):
800PF- Overall feels lighter with the Z8, but you suddenly can feel the bulk of this lens, and it's noticeably more front heavy. It's now a lens w/ a camera hanging off the back, whereas the Z9 felt like the centerpiece. I like the feel of the Z9 on this one better.
400 4.5- weirdly, the balance feels similar, so not as shocking of a change compared to the Z9. Of course it feels lighter, but it's not as "super tiny amazing" as I thought it was going to be.
100-400- this one surprised me, it feels amazing on the Z8! Perfectly balanced and nice to hold.
I then went in and copied settings over from the Z9. Camera didn't get hot at all, felt like you'd expect something to feel that you had been holding in your hand for any length of time.
Overall the camera feels nice and light, reminds me of my D500. I think I'm going to like this thing a lot!