Lance B., if only everyone were so understanding.I think that we all just have to accept that things can happen out of the control of the tour operator and those risks need to be spelled out at the time of taking the booking.
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Lance B., if only everyone were so understanding.I think that we all just have to accept that things can happen out of the control of the tour operator and those risks need to be spelled out at the time of taking the booking.
My B-I-L went to Tufts. What is your son planning to study?Thanks Bob
And I may contact you about that - my son is going to Tufts this fall so I may be in the area now and then. It'd be great to catch up
I may eventually do a few here and there - we already have enough people waiting for a potential Africa trip from me that I don't think I'd even need to announce it. For now, we do have places we recommend. Head to this page and Rose will contact you with lots of infoI’m very sorry to hear that…I was really hoping you would do Africa again. Do you have any recommendations for other Africa trip leaders that you would go with or that have similar styles to you. I thought about doing CR with you this year…still am actually…but not knowing Dennis or watching his videos and following his blog and forums…I admit I’m hesitant to go with an unknown quantity…but I am still considering it at this point. Rose gave me the dates and presumably she’ll let people who’ve asked about the trip know when they’re officially available. I understand your dilemma and decision..but am bummed about it. I’m like you though…a commitment is a commitment and in my 20 years in the submarine force I missed some holidays, birthdays, family illness issues and the like…and when the ship needs to get underway, the officers need to be there…so you suck it up and go.
I believe this is correct. While I do have insurance for liability and such, I'm not sure if there is anything out there like this for operators - or what the price of something like that might be. Something I'll have to look into.As for trip insurance, we always buy it, but I do not think it would cover such an event. It would cover only YOU getting ill and having to interrupt the trip---I am not sure it would cover the trip leader/guide being unable to continue the trip. Something to look into.
He's going to get his masters degree in urban planning and development. Starting in just a few weeksMy B-I-L went to Tufts. What is your son planning to study?
Steve, I respect your honesty here, thanks for sharing your thoughts and experience. That was a terrible situation you were in with your Mom so critically ill. How you handled it is admirable. I'm sorry to hear about your loss. It's a reminder of how precious life is and how quickly things can change. Your post has helped me understand the "other" side of tours, as a participant. I've done a couple tours, and I'm scheduled for another one in the spring. I have a greater respect for the companies and guides now. Thanks again for the insight.This is why I've cut back on tours
I've had two issues and it puts you in a terrible position.
The first was when I had Covid and still had workshops that year. We weren't sure if I was going to make it and doing the workshops was a lot at the time. My breathing still hadn't recovered, my mind still was fully back, and it didn't take much to exhaust me. Still, I did them anyway as best I could.
The second was just last year. The day before two tours in Africa my mother had a massive stroke. She was in a nearly vegetative state and unable to move, speak, anything. The morning of my flight I went to visit her in the hospital and as we left I told my wife I didn't know if I would ever see her alive again. No choice though - with two tours and a hundreds of thousands of dollars spent by participants on the tour and flights, we had zero choice. It was a miserable time for me and I know I was snipper with the guests than I should have been. (Mom did pass away a few months later, but it was a for the best - she never recovered and remained mostly vegetative.)
I've not run a workshop since and not sure I will do it again. We still run Costa Rica workshops through Dennis and I can act as his backup in a pinch, but that's all I'm doing at the moment. At this point I'm too gun shy because while some people are very understating, some are not. Ih addition, once you are late in the game (the Africa trip especially), it's far too late to cancel. The vast majority of a workshop fee goes to things like hotels, vehicles, park fees, and other things you book months in advance that are NOT refundable. For the Africa trip, even if I had wanted to cancel, there we no way I could refund everyone - I don't have $200,000+ lying around and what I make is only a small fraction of that. Not to mention airfare. People think it's easy to just issue a refund if you can't do the trip, but that's not the case at all. The reality is, you HAVE to do them if you book them.
Honestly, I'm not sure if I ever will do a workshop again. I might go with friends to various places, but a formal tour, I just don't know if I want the stress. For sure if I ever do them it will be in a very limited capacity.
I hope I'm on that list. Maybe by spring 2025 you'll feel like doing some again which is realistically when I would be looking at going…but if turns out to be next spring sometime then I'm on that like fleas. Going to Glacier with Hudson H next late July and probably do CR with Connie along as spouse as well…Rose and I have been emailing about the schedule for those and we'll likely do the first one with Dennis.I may eventually do a few here and there - we already have enough people waiting for a potential Africa trip from me that I don't think I'd even need to announce it. For now, we do have places we recommend. Head to this page and Rose will contact you with lots of info
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Yup, just get with Rose and let her know you want to go to Africa if we head out again.I hope I'm on that list. Maybe by spring 2025 you'll feel like doing some again which is realistically when I would be looking at going…but if turns out to be next spring sometime then I'm on that like fleas. Going to Glacier with Hudson H next late July and probably do CR with Connie along as spouse as well…Rose and I have been emailing about the schedule for those and we'll likely do the first one with Dennis.
That was my master's degree as well, but not from Tufts. I wish him well. The issues of the day have changed a lot since I was in graduate school.He's going to get his masters degree in urban planning and development. Starting in just a few weeks
Steve, I completely understand and appreciate your misgivings but for the sake of your many fans, I sincerely hope that you do offer workshops again. We promise to go easy on you if you do!This is why I've cut back on tours
I've had two issues and it puts you in a terrible position.
The first was when I had Covid and still had workshops that year. We weren't sure if I was going to make it and doing the workshops was a lot at the time. My breathing still hadn't recovered, my mind still was fully back, and it didn't take much to exhaust me. Still, I did them anyway as best I could.
The second was just last year. The day before two tours in Africa my mother had a massive stroke. She was in a nearly vegetative state and unable to move, speak, anything. The morning of my flight I went to visit her in the hospital and as we left I told my wife I didn't know if I would ever see her alive again. No choice though - with two tours and a hundreds of thousands of dollars spent by participants on the tour and flights, we had zero choice. It was a miserable time for me and I know I was snipper with the guests than I should have been. (Mom did pass away a few months later, but it was a for the best - she never recovered and remained mostly vegetative.)
I've not run a workshop since and not sure I will do it again. We still run Costa Rica workshops through Dennis and I can act as his backup in a pinch, but that's all I'm doing at the moment. At this point I'm too gun shy because while some people are very understating, some are not. Ih addition, once you are late in the game (the Africa trip especially), it's far too late to cancel. The vast majority of a workshop fee goes to things like hotels, vehicles, park fees, and other things you book months in advance that are NOT refundable. For the Africa trip, even if I had wanted to cancel, there we no way I could refund everyone - I don't have $200,000+ lying around and what I make is only a small fraction of that. Not to mention airfare. People think it's easy to just issue a refund if you can't do the trip, but that's not the case at all. The reality is, you HAVE to do them if you book them.
Honestly, I'm not sure if I ever will do a workshop again. I might go with friends to various places, but a formal tour, I just don't know if I want the stress. For sure if I ever do them it will be in a very limited capacity.
Steve has some important observations about tours that many people may not be aware of that are worth considering. I guess I would ask, did you enjoy the trip and have a good time? If so, then I’d just chalk it up to Forest Gump’s expression, “s#@t happens”I have had an experience when a tour leader had problem (I am not going to name names) and was not able accompany the group on the tour. The ground operator ran the tour in the leaders place. The ground operator was very good but was not a photographer so the group lost the guidance of the tour leader/photographer. The tour leader had a legit reason not attend and it would have been extremely difficult, but not impossible for them to get someone to fill in (probably would have joined the tour 3-5 days late). We know and accept that **** happens. However if I can not attend a tour, I lose my tour fee. What should the tour leader have done - partial refund or credit for future trip, apologize but no refund, ... There were some travels who know the tour leader very well and others who never (or only once) had a travels with the tour leader. If you were offered a refund or future credit would accept it?
Second case, different tour leader, gets very sick and may not be able to lead a tour. i already paid the deposit and bought plane tickets. Illness is serious and may prevent them for leading tour for a while. Should they tell all the participants that tour may be cancelled and give them a refund so that they can make other plans for the time? Or hope that he/she gets better? If the tour is rescheduled for another year, should participants have the option to get their deposit back?
These are not easy situations to decide what is the correct solution. Appreciate any thoughts have as either participant or tour leader (hint - @Steve your comments are sought). Anybody been in such a situation and though it was handled well or poorly?