I have a D850 and shoot sport with it on long lenses: Nikon AF-S 300m f2.8 II (non-VR), 200-500mm, Nikon AF-S 200-400mm f4. I've shot both with and without the grip. Where the difference in favour of the grip is with these long lenses, the bigger EN-EL18 battery can drive them a bit harder. At least more consistently when an EN-EL15 is at 50% or lower. Just like an electric lawnmower starts to struggle in the last 40% of battery (also have one of those which uses 2 x 18v 4.0w batteries).
Wish there was an objective way to measure the difference in focuse performance, but we're talking about milliseconds here and slightly erratic behaviour.
Also when shooting a game, the EN-EL15 won't last a whole game with a big lens. Worrying about when to change batteries and some lag on focus does not improve sport shooting. Still, if you are not going to shoot big heavy lenses, the grip and the EN-EL18 probably won't improve focus. With the big lenses, a D850 balances better. Also if you're shooting a D5 with the other hand, it's easier to have identical grip and identical battery requirements. Not having to worry about batteries during a game helps focus a photographer on the shoot and not the technology.