My point is that I did tighten this knob more than once, but how many times are you supposed to tighten it? Every time you use it, no. Just like a car's lugs you assume they are tight because the mechanic tightened them and they should remain that way. The same applies to this lens knob, I tightened it. My issue is that it came untightened. In the mechanical world, they use lock washers or locking nuts, something to keep the lug tight. This lug was tight and became loose on its own and that's my issue.
Sorry for your experience.
Anyway, thank you to pointing this problem which could have happenned to me because I din't know it, and wouldn't have thought, like you, that it this a weak point.
I hope this won't happen on removable parts of my power tools (way less expensive than my nikon gear) which vibrates a lot when I'm tinkering, because it even could be dangerous for me (but hey, I've just checked them and even those with more than 15 years use are still well tighten. So far, so good with my power tools).
I still think this is a Nikon weak design and this is not normal and it is Nikon fault.
Like you, I thought that foot being what support the whole gear, it should have be impossible (except improper use, or something broken or factory default) to it to let the gear fall on the floor.
I would add seeing the price Nikon charge those feet (look at 300 PF foot price - it is an option) and compare to competitors (near twice the price of a canon equivalent for canon lenses when I bought it - long time ago), it should have been because of great care in the design and manufacture.
Of course people knowing this problem can argue that you should have checked this point and it is improper use. But I don't think this is a fair judgement.