Most common/annoying reaction to your photos

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I probably fit into that camp my self Steve. I look at your photos and photos from others on this forum and think man there is no way I will ever be good enough to capture images like that but I keep struggling on because I love what is to me a hobby even though life gets in the way most of the time to keep me from pursuing it like I would wish I could.
Quit being your harshest critic. For a long time, I was critical of my photos for many of what were the wrong reasons. If you want critique, find someone who knows what they speak of. The purpose of critique should be your learning and to improve your photos.
 
Quit being your harshest critic. For a long time, I was critical of my photos for many of what were the wrong reasons. If you want critique, find someone who knows what they speak of. The purpose of critique should be your learning and to improve your photos.
Thanks for the encouragement, I will keep that in mind but quite honestly I have always been my biggest critic. I used to shoot weddings back in the early to mid 90's and never thought my photos were that good then either, then a couple years ago I was going though some old photos and found some albums that I put my sample wedding photos in and when I looked though them I thought wow those are really good. I gave up photography back in something like 1997 or 1998 which was all film back then. I only started the digital photography 4 or 5 years ago so I can truly say the learning curve has been pretty steep and I don't get as much time to practice it as I would like to. I have always wanted to try my hand in wildlife photography and even dabbled in it 30 years ago, then I found Steve's website which wowed me so I thought well if I am going to learn something about this I may as well learn from the best so here I am.
 
Oh - another one that I'm sure we've all had: "Was that photoshopped?"

My response used to be :oops: but is now: "Everything is photoshopped!" followed by "Your phone 'photoshops' all your images based on what master photographers have done in the past to their images - it's amazing!" often followed with a discussion of "what is art?" and/or "what is reality?" And potentially followed by an explanation of how differently the camera captures scenes from how your eye-brain perceives it, possibly followed by an even more technical discussion of how you can't 'see' what the camera captured without a lot of computation to turn it into a viewable image on your phone/device.
 
I probably fit into that camp my self Steve. I look at your photos and photos from others on this forum and think man there is no way I will ever be good enough to capture images like that but I keep struggling on because I love what is to me a hobby even though life gets in the way most of the time to keep me from pursuing it like I would wish I could.
I agree with Whiskeyman. Don't be such a harsh critic of your photography. One thing I would suggest is to not hold your stuff up against that of others. Over time you will develop your own style, how you crop, edit, color correct, angles, subjects you like to shoot, etc. The world already has an @Steve, what we need is an @vandy.

We can always seek constructive criticism and constructive encouragement from others (even non-photographers). You should really compare your photos to your photos first. Are they better, if so, how. Have you hit a plateau? If so, change something like shoot black and white for a while. Also, take photos of those things you truly love. Your insight into the true beauty of those things will show through in your photography. For example, my wife loves wild snakes and goes searching for them. Her photos of snakes can be works of art. I truly love wildflowers and whitetail deer. I've spent the better part of the last 45 years observing them, learning about them, and admiring them. I think my best work is when I'm taking photos of flowers or deer. Others may not agree but that is what gives me the most joy.

Again, don't be too hard on yourself. Very few of the people here are making a living at it, we all do it for fun.
Jeff
 
I agree with Whiskeyman. Don't be such a harsh critic of your photography. One thing I would suggest is to not hold your stuff up against that of others. Over time you will develop your own style, how you crop, edit, color correct, angles, subjects you like to shoot, etc. The world already has an @Steve, what we need is an @vandy.

We can always seek constructive criticism and constructive encouragement from others (even non-photographers). You should really compare your photos to your photos first. Are they better, if so, how. Have you hit a plateau? If so, change something like shoot black and white for a while. Also, take photos of those things you truly love. Your insight into the true beauty of those things will show through in your photography. For example, my wife loves wild snakes and goes searching for them. Her photos of snakes can be works of art. I truly love wildflowers and whitetail deer. I've spent the better part of the last 45 years observing them, learning about them, and admiring them. I think my best work is when I'm taking photos of flowers or deer. Others may not agree but that is what gives me the most joy.

Again, don't be too hard on yourself. Very few of the people here are making a living at it, we all do it for fun.
Jeff
Thanks Jeff, I am going to keep plugging away at when I get the chance, I now have way too much invested not to.
 
I've got one that isn't related to reactions to my photographs but concerns well intended people asking excruciatingly dumb questions at precisely the wrong times. I'm in the Grasslands outside FT Edward, NY, in winter, and it's snowy and somewhere between 14 and 19 degrees. Had been out there a week and was lucky to get Snowy Owls, but no matter what I did, I could not capture a single shot of a Short-Eared Owl. So, on my last afternoon, I trek about a half mile to a viewing area and set up. This time I covered the camera and tripod with camo and had bought a camo poncho that covered my head and whole body and hid myself in the tree line at the edge of a large field, thinking this ought to do it - Short-Eared Owl will never see me dressed up like a fellow snow-covered tree and I begin to patiently wait. I'm there about a half hour and I see this guy and a companion of his walking down the trail with some kind of kit camera arrangement (I've got a 600mm f/4 lens while the guy walking down the trail has a 50mm lens), his friend has a pair of binoculars. The guy with the camera is wearing a bright red and blue ski jacket. His companion is wearing a bright, shiny silver jacket that reflects like a mirror. They see me, so perhaps the camo arrangement wasn't so good, and they continue walking down until they're along side of me. The guy in the red and blue ski jacket is very friendly and comments that I have a great set up and wants to know all about it, while the guy wearing the spacesuit silver jacket steps out into the field to scan the horizon with his binoculars. Now, it's my last day, and I haven't gotten close enough to a short-eared owl to even take a pathetic long-distance hail Mary shot, light is beginning to fade, and I'm beginning to see this day is not going to end well with these guys chatting me up about what great gear I have. Finally, one of the guys mentions that the way I'm all decked out in camo I'll have no trouble getting the owl shot I want, and that's when I surprised myself and in frustration blurted out "not with you guys standing here decked out in screaming red and blue and this guy wearing a silver spacesuit." I couldn't believe I had said it. But they were good about it. After the initial shock wore off, they laughed, acknowledged it was a problem, and they finally walked off. I'd love to say that I got my owl that afternoon, but that's going to have to wait until next winter. Both guys, well intended and friendly, just didn't get it. I laugh now about it, but I wasn't laughing then!
 
"If I had a 600 F/4 I could take photos like that too!"

I want to repsond:

No, no you can't :) If you can't take good photos with the gear you have, new gear isn't going to make much of a difference.
Two things: If I can get the same image with a cheap kit lens, why does anyone need a 600 f/4?
Second thing: People will show your their image of that ancient Chinese palace, and when you say "I'll never get a shot like that because I can't afford to go to exotic places ," they will say "Shoot what's around you."
Like that juniper tree there?
Okay, but how do I make it look like an ancient Chinese palace? :unsure:
 
“Get any good pictures?”

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I live in a small town and I often walk from my home to a local park or field with my gear and my neighbor, who seems to keep a watchful eye on my activities will comment “what are you doing with that spy camera?”
 
On a general note, I find annoying the western tendency to compliment and praise shots that should have been sent to the recycle bin.

But doncha know, if you don't rave about how great their bad shots are, they will be discouraged and quit...(As opposed to taking criticism as well meaning and learning from it, I guess...) Better to make them think their stuff is great. then next time you see them, they'll be on that forum asking what lens to use when they shoot their first wedding next weekend.

Ain't confidence great?
 
The two big ones that always get my gears grinding are:
"You took this?" - No... I took a picture from google and slapped my signature on it. It's most frustrating that it almost always comes from a family member that knows I do wildlife photography.
"Oh wow! I bet I could get a shot like that on my phone too." - Ummmm... Good luck!

The fun one that I like is the "that's a big lens" comment about my 200-500. If I don't have it fully extended when they see it, I wink and proudly proclaim, "You think that's big? It's a grower, not a shower!" then extended it out fully. I always get a good laugh from it.
 
I think the worst is when someone takes it upon themselves to copy your photo, use their idea that's usually extremely over the top editing and then repost it to your post with the comment "this is what it could look like if you edited it properly". Over saturated, extreme clarity and sharpening, too much denoise to the point that the combination makes the hair, or feathers slick with no detail. It doesn't even resemble the actual subject in life.
 
I think the worst is when someone takes it upon themselves to copy your photo, use their idea that's usually extremely over the top editing and then repost it to your post with the comment "this is what it could look like if you edited it properly". Over saturated, extreme clarity and sharpening, too much denoise to the point that the combination makes the hair, or feathers slick with no detail. It doesn't even resemble the actual subject in life.
I uased to participate on a forum where doing that just once (without permission) would get your IP banned forever.
 
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haha, before I retired you would have really enjoyed me. Most of my career I was a project manager. I was paid to see the negative in every situation. how to prepare plans, contingency plans and plans for when contingencies go awry. My philosophy was "If anything can go wrong, it already has... you just don't know it yet." I had a sign on my desk that said "Murphy was an optimist.". So happy to be retired and out of that life. It can put one in a very very dark place.
Been doing project management for over 30 years and share the same outlook. It is what we are trained to do. I just wish I was able to retire as I now have a management chain that cannot understand why it takes several years to plan a project, finance it and then build a building. To borrow your phrase, it has put me in a very dark place. If they were just optimistic, that would be one thing, but they are uninformed and cannot imagine this work is complicated and takes time. I can only imagine what they would say about my photography.

--Ken
 
Been doing project management for over 30 years and share the same outlook. It is what we are trained to do. I just wish I was able to retire as I now have a management chain that cannot understand why it takes several years to plan a project, finance it and then build a building. To borrow your phrase, it has put me in a very dark place. If they were just optimistic, that would be one thing, but they are uninformed and cannot imagine this work is complicated and takes time. I can only imagine what they would say about my photography.

--Ken
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Ken, I hear ya brother. I know exactly where you are coming from. I've been in that dark place. I sure do hope you can retire soon. I held out for a little over 36 years and one day woke up and realized I just couldn't do it any longer. Announced I was going to retire. I took the last 6 months finishing out a big project and getting some stuff ready to turn over to someone else. We parted on very good terms but I'm not sure if I could have held out much longer.

Once you get used to a life with far less stress and no paycheck retirement is great. It takes about 5 or 6 months to get over the feeling you should be getting dressed to go to work.

Be thinking about ya brother.

Jeff
 
I think the worst is when someone takes it upon themselves to copy your photo, use their idea that's usually extremely over the top editing and then repost it to your post with the comment "this is what it could look like if you edited it properly". Over saturated, extreme clarity and sharpening, too much denoise to the point that the combination makes the hair, or feathers slick with no detail. It doesn't even resemble the actual subject in life.

That happens a lot here. People post how they would have done it. It bugs me even when it's not my photo. If folks would ask first to change someone else's pic I think it would be fine, but most people don't ask, they just post their 'better' one.
 
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... Once you get used to a life with far less stress and no paycheck retirement is great. It takes about 5 or 6 months to get over the feeling you should be getting dressed to go to work.
We each have different adjustment periods. Mine was the last five or six months that I was working and knowing I had an exit date. Once I was out the door I never looked back. Haven't missed the job at all. I do miss the mental stimulation of solving technical problems and coming up with solutions. I guess I fill that gap by over complicating the simplest things around home :rolleyes:
 
A big part of my job was to make the project team look good.
All I wanted was the resources and to be left alone to get the job done. Credit was for those above me, and I was fine with that. My colleagues who also did this work knew what it took, and I thought that was most important. Not unlike my photography. I am not too concerned about what others think, although it is nice when folks like an image. But I do appreciate when somebody who knows the challenge of getting/making an image passes along a compliment.

--Ken
 
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Been doing project management for over 30 years and share the same outlook. It is what we are trained to do. I just wish I was able to retire as I now have a management chain that cannot understand why it takes several years to plan a project, finance it and then build a building. To borrow your phrase, it has put me in a very dark place. If they were just optimistic, that would be one thing, but they are uninformed and cannot imagine this work is complicated and takes time. I can only imagine what they would say about my photography.

--Ken
I hear you! My work has new management that is all about the illusion of increasing productivity by fiat. No new resources to accomplish the new requirements are coming our way, but we're supposed to significantly increase production. It's now a dark place where I work, too!
 
I am late to this party. Photography is how I decompress. When I go on a "Nikon Holiday" I do my best to avoid people as much as possible; if I wanted to photograph people, I would not aviate 1500 to 2000 miles or more! DUH! I have only one grandchild and she is the only person I really care about taking photos of and being in an occasional photo with. What annoys me a LOT, and I mean a LOT; I am doing my thing, focusing on getting the shot and someone just has to have their picture taken; with a BLEEPING cell phone. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr...............I get very anti-social at times. As for those of you who still think "The customer is always right" ought to work in retail for one year; you will learn quickly how phony that statement really is!!! After a typical Nikon Holiday, if I get one image that is worthy of printing large and hanging on a wall, I am happy. Typically, I will have several images that I personally like from an outing and over time those images will "talk to me"; they have some emotion, some feeling to them that endures. Eventually one or perhaps two of those images from a trip will remind me of all I did that trip. Another very annoying comment is..."I like the pretty colors", I get this a lot when people see shots I have decolorized. I believe there are times when color is a distraction to the shot and its composition. Black and white images can be very emotional, and that is precisely why I like them.
 
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